Baby Shower If you are having a child within the next few months, then one of the best ways to celebrate is with a baby shower. Whether you've had the baby already or not, you and your friends can come together in order commemorate your ascension into motherhood. Not a shower in the literal sense; the phrase actually refers to the fact that the mother is showered with presents. The tradition is that baby showers are organised for the couple's first-born only and that it's strictly a women-only event. Since the function focuses on the presentation of gifts, it is normally devised and anchored by a best friend, as opposed to family members. This is because it's thought of as rude for a family to solicit donations on the mother's behalf. Customs change depending on the religion or culture to which the mother belongs though. For some, it's both conventional and expected for the hosting duties to fall upon a female member of the family. If you have been tasked with scheduling the baby shower, you'll find that there's plenty of establishments around to help you. Discuss your requirements with them and they'll see to it that you're fully prepared for the occasion.